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Can A Website Help You Beat The Blues – And Say Goodbye to a Life of Quiet Desperation?


Hi, I’m a 55 yr old Dedo. I’ve been a younger version. But this is me now : )

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Have you ever gone on holiday and when you got back you thought “REALLY?

That went quick”!!


There’s a film you’ve got to watch, it’s called “Groundhog Day”, It was all about a cynical T.V. weatherman who – when on vacation in a small town called Punxsutawney, finds himself reliving the same day over and over again.

During his stay, he realizes he can change the outcome of events by changing how he acts (changing behaviour).

Note: Change your “ACT”, and life will never be the same again.

Why Do We Keep On Keeping On?

What I mean is, Can you remember when you were a child and you “REALLY” wanted something?

Be it to learn to ride a bike –  or climb a tree – have an adventure with your friends or learn those squiggly lines we formed into letters, then words.

Also, the things we automatically just, DID! (not including the squiggly lines)

Recall the exact time you forgot how to have fun and be more spontaneous.

Or did it happen over time?

Whose Fault Is It When Children Disobey?

This is how we learnt to give up our power, which was a good thing at the time (for our parents). But it hurts us when…

“All of a sudden”, we’ve matured into responsible adults. And have forgotten our natural spontaneity.

(To be able to forge ahead in life’s great adventure).

Quiet Desperation

Waking up in the morning to face endless queues of traffic, or battling thousands of commuters for a few seats on the train because it’s been delayed. Working for a boss that doesn’t appreciate your talents (and not paying you what you’re worth). Going to bed, after filling your head with fantasy T.V., and wake up to the same scenario, year after year, till you die!.


Join Me, And let’s Have An Adventure Together!

Have a look around, and see if anything strikes a chord with you, if it does, leave me a comment and I’ll do my best to help you find what you’re looking for “specifically“.

Yours Cordially



PS: There are plenty of posts already published that’ll push you forward in your endeavours…

Also, helping you in this incredible journey we call life. So don’t hesitate and put off ’till tomorrow what you can do right now.

These moments of now, stack up every day(make the most of them).

Because… before you know it, “YOU’RE HISTORY

Wasting time seems to be a popular activity nowadays (it’s easier I suppose)…

Don’t let it be you who lives a life of regret, put yourself in gear and go for it!

No Regrets! (click on that link below… chill, and listen to an ole’ classic)

No, nothing of nothing
No! I don’t feel sorry about anything
Not the good things people have done to me
Not the bad things, it’s all the same to me.
No, nothing of nothing
No! I don’t feel sorry about anything
It’s paid for, removed, forgotten,
I’m happy about the past
With my memories
I lit up the fire
My troubles, my pleasures
I don’t need them anymore
Broomed away my love stories
And all their tremble
Broomed away for always
I start again from zero
Because my life, my joys
Today, they begin with you.

































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